Have you ever thought about playing someone else's role? And it's not just in a way that has earned both fame and fortune. We're talking about your fantasies, those secret moments, when you imagine yourself at the center of the action of the book you're reading or the porn you're watching.

Any sex related or eccentric role play starts in one place - your imagination. When you were a child, dressing up as a superhero or a superhero is a pure version of what you can do now. It's all about doing things that excite you.

THINK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES

What excites you? Was it your favorite teacher in college? Maybe you want your masseur to do more when you're covered with a towel. Have you ever read porn and wished you were a vampire or a pirate?

In role play, your imagination is limited. Think about anything that excites you, even if it's just the first time you've been dating someone you've long wanted. Your dirty thoughts are the sexy inspiration of all your role-playing games.

TALK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES

There are some role-playing fantasies that you can jump on to your partner, like pretending to meet them in a bar. Others need some preparation. If you have a bizarre Cosplay fantasy with leather, whips, and Mermaids (don't worry - have a sexy costume for that)... Well, you need to wake up your partner earlier.

From "I can't stop dreaming..." Start, then, measure your partner's interest. If they're a little cheered up or come into fantasy with you, take it to a new level. Like, "can you be a prisoner, can I be a guard?"? "Or whatever your fantasy is.

MAKE IT KINKY... OR DON’T

Some role-playing fantasies are essentially about power - teachers and students, or officials and criminals. One of you has the right to control the other and can "get what you need" from the other. It's a great way to explore a quirky power exchange dynamic in a more playful way, without some seriousness or intensity.

However, not all roleplaying scenarios have to be this way. Pretend to pick up your partner at a bar, or pretend you're dating, so you can safely be someone you don't think you are - aggressive, bold, open sex.

START SLOW

For many people, role-playing can be a bit silly. You may feel embarrassed or uncomfortable "pretending to play," even if it's the idea for you to open up. Start small and take your time.

Tell your partner about your fantasy first. This way you can use your imagination without looking at each other or talking loudly. For some people, this is all the role play you may need or want. For others, once you get used to typing, it's much easier to say "lines" in a role-playing scenario.

GET DRESSED UP ... OR DON’T

Imagination is a powerful thing, so clothing in role play is not necessary. If you know nothing or are not interested in wigs, hats and clothing, skip it. But if grooming helps you get into character, do it. If you don't know what to choose, there will always be classic French maids, nurses and secretaries. Moreover, there are many options to increase the size.

You can buy sexy clothes online, from adult stores or clothing stores, or you can use the things in your closet to match your character's perfect clothes. No need to dress up, but it can definitely make your scene more realistic. It can also be very interesting.

WHAT SHOULD YOU SAY?

The first few lines of your role play can be embarrassing or stupid - it doesn't matter. This is a new game, no one expects you to be perfect at the beginning. At first, you can feel for the past with a smile. If it's a strong fantasy for you or your partner, then these words will appear, and then you can follow each other.

You may well know how you want to end your fantasy. If you do, you should also let your partner know. But you may be surprised at what happened, in which case imagine what your character will say or what you want them to say, and then do it. If you do well, there won't be a drama critic to tell you. If you end up naked, sweating, and satisfied, your performance will be great!

Open your heart to your partner and let your imagination lead the way

Role playing in a bedroom (or bar, hotel or other place) can be a great way to share your sexiest fantasies, try new things, and explore your eccentricities. It can also bring a lot of fun, lead to laughter and sex, which is never a bad combination!

It's important to be open to your partner and let your imagination lead the way. Willing to make stupid mistakes - it should be fun! Moreover, as you become more and more good at shaping your personality and letting go of your depression, you may be surprised where your fantasy has brought you.