Blow Job Sex
How to Blow Job
Blow jobs can be one lady’s signature move. You can have a man addicted to you and only you just because he can’t forget the way he felt inside your wet slippery mouth. On a surface level, giving head doesn’t really sound that hard at all. It’s all about his dick in your mouth, right? How hard can that be?
Whatever your reasons are, we got you covered. We’re going to give you a guide on how to give a blow job like a professional pornstar. After reading this article, let’s just say, your boyfriend is going to have amnesia once you put your new skills to use.
The Blow Job Build Up
Find You Inner Seductress And Take The Lead
Every girl has an inner seductress in them just waiting to be unleashed. Put on the charm and make that bold move. You don’t always have to play coy all the time and let the man do all the pursuing. You can switch gears and take the initiative instead of just patiently waiting for him to lead the way. The thought of being desired by someone who can barely contain themselves can be an intoxicating feeling. Your man feels the same way too!
Now, remember, your attitude has a lot to do with this. If you show him that you’re really interested in having him in the naughtiest ways possible, you can bet he’s going to be a willing accomplice.
Send Dirty Texts
Okay, I’m going to admit. This one’s my personal favorite. There’s nothing quite like sending sexy messages back and forth throughout the day. If he’s out on an errand or at the office, tell him what’s in store for him the next time you guys meet. You can be explicit about it, or just vague enough but still giving him an idea what your lips want to do to the bad boy in his pants. And just to take it up a notch, send him that sexy selfie you’ve been saving for special occasions like this.
Touch Him… But Subtly
If you're out with your boyfriend, staying close can be a challenge. But you can make it work for you. Are you in a restaurant with him? Give him a soft squeeze on the thigh. Gently brush his arm with your hand to his neck. Accidentally hit his garbage with your ass. You see. There was a spark in his eyes. Keep teasing him until you get home.
Of course, there are more ways to keep him in a good mood. You can try and see what will set his trousers on fire.
The Blow Job Foreplay
By now, you’re probably keen on getting to the actual blow job business. We’re going to get there, but close those lips for now. You need to hear about this part too. So you executed the first part perfectly and now you got your man all turned on. Here’s what you should do next.
Sensual Dick Rubs
It's better to put on your pants. Sexy Dick friction can be done when you two naively curl up on the couch watching TV, or when you're doing a hot and heavy make-up process. There's really no math involved here. The simple way is to put your hand on his crotch and massage that part. You can relax with him, or you can squeeze and let go.
He's going to take off his pants. You can help him solve the problem. Untie his pants, grab his dick and go on with what you just said. Try to find his eggs, too. Massage, roll, press and release.
A path of kisses
Leave a little kiss where he's sexy. Lick, suck, bite his earlobes. Exhale hot air around his neck. He would shudder or moan, and he would love it anyway. Slowly walk to his chest, then the navel, leaving a little pure kiss along the way. When you get below his waist, you will be rewarded with his anger.
Ask Him How To Do Him
After massaging his dick and kissing him in his sensitive spots, you can take a quick pause. Ask him just what he wants you to do next. Of course he’s going to want you to give him a blow job. The question has nothing to do with being polite at all. Saying his intentions out loud just makes for a very erotic scene. Hearing him say it also lets you know that his pleasure is totally under your control which only adds to your turn on.
Now that you’re done with the build-up and you’ve had your blow job foreplay, it’s time to put your man out of his agony. Enough playing around.
The Actual Blow job
At this point, it's safe to say that your man is about to look forward to crazy, and now it's Horny hell. He wants you to hand in what you've been joking about before. You're going to deliver. The skills of passionate and sophisticated porn stars.
No Such Thing As Too Much Spit
Blow jobs are just one of those things you’re allowed to be sloppy. The more spit, the better. The penis just doesn’t have enough lubrication so you have to provide for it yourself. Sure, there’s the precum. But come on, that’s actually just a bead of lube on an average of what? A five inches penis? That’s still not enough lube. Feel free to spit on your man’s dong. Drool all over it. Don’t stop till you’re making threadlike spit as you pull back from his penis.
Your Fangs Teeth Are A No No
If you’re giving a blow job, let it be known that teeth—braces or no braces—are not welcome. The penis is way too sensitive, a little scrape from your teeth can feel like torture for your man. If you don’t want his dick to shrink and curl up in defense mode, always watch out for your teeth when you have him in your mouth.
Lick Him From Base To Tip Like You’re Licking A Lolli
You've licked lollipops before, haven't you? It's no different from our suggestion. Keep your tongue flat. Now lick his whole body, from the bottom to the top of the chicken. Lick his tip a little more, but don't overdo it. A man's urethra can be very sensitive.
Truth be told, your tongue is going to have many uses during the entire blow job process. The lollipop method is just one of them.
Don’t Rush, There’s No Taxi Waiting Outside
If you’re thrusting too fast, there’s a higher chance you’re going to hurt your man. Remember the no teeth rule. He’s not going to enjoy it, since he’s going to be way too worried about his poor dick. And you’re not going to enjoy it either, since you fail to give yourself the time to get into it. Allow yourself to immerse in the act of giving a blow job. Take your time. You got the joystick in your hand so you may as well enjoy the ride.
Don’t Go Too Soft, It’s Not As Fragile As You Think
You ever watched porn and hear the guy demanding that the girl suck him harder? If you haven’t (which we doubt), then we’re telling you now. That scene is actually not too far from the truth. We’ve repeatedly mentioned how sensitive a guy’s penis is, but don’t mistake it for something that’s fragile. You can pucker your lips, suck him hard, and pump his dick as you please. And it’s not actually going to fall off. Keyword here, hard. But not too fast.
Moan Like You’re Drinking Water After A 10-Year Drought
Your boyfriend loves the sound of your moans. He interprets it as you finding pleasure in his dick. So yes, moan like you’ve been in a draught for 10 long years and you’re finally blessed with rain. Let him hear you make that sultry sound at the back of your throat. And even if he hasn’t elicited that sound from you, there’s no harm in faking it till you make it. If at first you were just pretending, you may be surprised to find yourself moaning for real.
Make Gurgling, Sucking Noises
Again, this has to do with the auditory senses. Men just love to hear that thing you do with your lips while you suck him dry. It heightens his arousal to hear you gurgle with your spit and smack those gorgeous lips of yours. Do it so with great fervor.
Express In Words How You Love To Suck His Dick
If your groans and grunts are not enough, how about using words? There's nothing sexier than listening to a woman show that she likes her boyfriend's mouth. Tell your man how angry you are. How much you like your woman. It's a huge self-improvement for him, and he'll like your poop too.
Choke On It (Or Not)
Let’s just begin this one with full disclosure. Deep-throating isn’t for everyone. Some girls are into it, some have their apprehensions, and some give it their flat-out rejection. And that’s okay. We want what we want. Don’t force yourself to like the act just because your guy is into it. But if you’re one of the girls who genuinely enjoys deep throat, just remember to relax… and don’t forget to breathe.
Don’t Leave Out The Balls
It’s unfortunate to know that these two gobs are usually left out. They’re like the oddballs (haha, sorry not sorry) when it comes to blow jobs. They’re there but also kind of not there. As someone who’s teaching you how to give head like a pornstar, we’d be doing you a dishonor if we don’t share with you how much guys love to have their balls stimulated. You can have your way with his balls. Suck on them, lick them, or massage them with your hands.